hella_bunyip ([info]hella_bunyip) wrote,
@ 2006-07-05 10:36:00
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SUMPTUOUS HELLOES
Janey's cat died. :(

He officially belongs to us (Janey saved him from being drowned as a kitten when she was living in the country), but he was living with Janey's grandfather down in Geelong until such time as Pop could no longer look after him. But he got mauled by a dog. Apparently the dog also attacked a person so the cat is going to be used as evidence. O_O

VALE BULLBAR

Of course my aunt also died, which is a far more significant event, but we knew that was coming. She had cancer everywhere and lasted a lot longer and in more comfort than was expected. Anyway mum's pretty sad right now and Dad's just headed off to a conference in Wales, so we're trying to make sure she gets to see Toby reasonably often as he is good therapy.

Janey's mum is going to use Pop's money to buy him a digital TV and video recorder. I'm not exactly sure why, as I'm sure Pop has no particular desire for either of these things. I suspect she just likes buying things. We've been offered his old TV which is itself only a couple of years old and perfectly good. I think it may even have been a previous mum purchase. It's probably better than ours for watching movies so if we can find a taker for our current TV we might go for the upgrade. If not, I'm happy to keep ours: there's no way we need TWO of them. I'm guessing Janey's brother might want Pop's for when he moves out and if so he's welcome.

I've found you can manufacture a sense of achievement in your leisure time by making lists of entertainment and ticking things off as you consume them. Computer games track progress internally so you don't need to make a list for those, but I've got lists of books, music, movies and TV shows. Hooray, my life is Progress Quest! I also have a list of actual things I have to DO, but it's been sadly neglected lately. This is partly because we don't have any actual money, but I talked to the guy I think is my manager at the moment about a raise and he agreed that this would be A Good Thing. Now I have to judge what's the appropriate intervals to wait before a) continually reminding him (also how to do this without wheedling) and b) giving up and finding another job.

I've started going to a Blockbuster near work to get the occasional weekly rental as they have a much better selection than our local stores. This means I can go back to gradually whittling away at the aforementioned movie list. We've seen A Very Long Engagement, Waking Life and Nausicaa so far. We also figure we're due for a "real" movie and so I think I'll have to choose between Superman Returns and Pirates 2. Janey's been to see The Break-up twice with different mother's groups but it's not something she'd choose to see otherwise.

Toby greets me with wide eyes when I get home in the evenings and comes crawling over at top speed. Last night he added unearthly hooting to the procedure. I have never known someone to be so impressed with the act of walking through a door. I hope it will not be too much of a shock to him when he realises we are not perfect heavenly beings.



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[info]dmarshall
2006-07-05 08:09 am UTC (link)
1) Is this a hecka_bunyip type post as we discussed earlier?

2) Whadja think of Waking Life?

3) I wouldn't worry in the short-term about your son's disillusionment with you. Adolescenthood doesn't count...the real discovery that your parents are just people too can't hit most people until after 20, and with that shock comes a great deal of compassion.

At least that's how it was for me, so in my usual fashion, I'll take my own experience and make some kind of Rule Of Humanity about it.

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[info]hella_bunyip
2006-07-05 11:53 pm UTC (link)
1) I've entirely forgotten what that means. Does that mean yes? :(

2) There were parts I was not very interested in, but I liked it more as it went along. I enjoyed the animation. My dreams used to be a lot more lucid, but I never really got to the stage where I could control them beyond the occasional suggestion. More often when I realise I'm not awake the best I'm able to do is go "WOW look at all this great stuff I'm dreaming!". Lately I'm still having some interesting dreams but not realising they're dreams until I wkae up. Last night I remember there was a flying minibus and I was really creeped out when it landed in a house's garden nearby.

3) That is not a question!

I think if we're going to try to instil a particular outlook in our kids we might go for "cheerful cynicism".

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[info]square721bt
2006-07-05 11:19 am UTC (link)
Please convey my apologies to Janey. I know how much it sucks to lose a pet, it keeps falling to me to euthanise the dogs.

I understand the list thing. We kind of do that, too:

http://restlesswarrior.com/cgi-bin/anime/results.pl

Saw Superman Returns tonight (in the Imax, in 3D). Good movie. Not like, you know, a triumph of American Cinema, but it's better than X-men but not as good as the Spidermans, I think. Definitely solid and entertaining. The Imax is worth it if you can get it, but don't go nuts for the 3d, it's not that great.

My suggestion on Toby is get drunk and scream and then have a terrible divorce and tell him all sorts of outlandish lies while actually doing outlandish horrible things in front of him so that he doesn't know what to believe about either of you. By the time he's old enough to realize you're imperfect, he'll hate you so much that it won't matter, but that'll be okay, because the hate will be something you caused on purpose. You'll know that he easilly could have not hated you.

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[info]hella_bunyip
2006-07-05 11:57 pm UTC (link)
I really like your voting system. Are you allowed to vote 5 times for one thing, or is 3 the limit?

We considered the all-out psychological warfare approach, but it's a little bit too trendy for us. It's like using the middle name "Rose" for your daughters - you don't necessarily want to do something just because everybody else is.

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[info]los_gobos
2006-07-05 02:04 pm UTC (link)
Seconding Letherlethe's question, how was Waking Life?

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[info]hella_bunyip
2006-07-05 11:58 pm UTC (link)
Seconding Ethelred the Unready's answer, it was okay! Worth watching, anyway.

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[info]undefinedmonkey
2006-07-05 11:33 pm UTC (link)
My condolences to Janey for both the aunt and the cat. It is slightly creepy that they're using the kitty for evidence, although it's for a very good cause.

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[info]hella_bunyip
2006-07-06 12:04 am UTC (link)
I believe the accepted method for dealing with grief is to devote your life to a cause so that the loved one's departure has meaning. I plan to stage a one-man war against whatever kind of dog it was. If it turns out to be something scary, or I can't find out what it is, I'll just start jumping out of bushes and scaring pomeranians.

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[info]undefinedmonkey
2006-07-07 12:19 am UTC (link)
That is a worthy goal. Pomeranians need a good scarin' every once in a while.

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